A successful married woman

 Successful experience of a woman married, very real, very reasonable
I'm 31 years old to get married, and now doing great. Dive in the horizon for many years, saw a lot of tragic stories of sisters, she also experienced several paragraphs very painful feelings. Now, their families and loved ones get along very well. I think I was still feeling some experience can give way to explore the sisters learn from them. I do not want to boast of what their better life, but I think we need to learn from their mistakes grow, must not own a pit Yishuai fell a further fall. hope that these experiences and sisters in love and marriage in the lingua franca.
1. most, girls or To try to make yourself some good, from the capacity to face.
Taiwan's famous advertisements: the most beautiful woman seriously. Each person has the right to choose their own lifestyle, but it must be serious, to ourselves, work, life Such women, if not natural beauty, but also the beauty of a calm self-confidence, and only time such a confrontation the United States can and also enjoy the type of man is good. the man who played the final play of life will also be playing.
might not work very well a lot of sisters who can pick up was clean and refreshing themselves, but also a great advantage. Anyway, the reality of the man or the first easy to judge by appearances, not only love a man so beautiful woman, woman for clean and fresh, most men have a favorable impression.
2. a good man, and self-request of the woman did not ask.
all the work yourself muddling along, but then his girlfriend many of the demands of men, or kept at a distance better. such a man, marriage has become the highest probability of male poison tongue. We married sisters, at least be required to respect their husbands, that they have the right to call his wife to go drink man is not a good marriage.
3. married to see the main character, character.
similar personality, similar outlook on life, money, marriage and life view is the best protection. personality is different from two people on weekdays there are Shuibu Lai, even if the world recognized as golden couple, born of a couple is not married, after all, most of the time of your life is to spend with him, and Lengnuanzizhi.
4. a the man began to say good enough for you, then he will always be good enough for you.
some good girls, always ran into some men appear to share the potential, you change yourself for him, pay all , he said, you think of his great, he's (education, money, ability, status, appearance, etc.) not good enough for you. I'm around a lot of examples of sisters, there is no self-confidence, you condescend to rely on contacts The man, later on you will not be good, your good will only make him more self-esteem.
5. entrusted lifetime ago, to see his family.
not see how much money his family is look at his family home is family harmony, concern for comity. a family of a man playing a woman, there is still indifferent, pretended family, and they will not control your life and death. Each family has its drawbacks , to ask what your boyfriend's attitude, blind blind loyalty of the men, the heart of his wife's respect is limited.
6. of their manpower, manpower is also a man of his girlfriend is not fun. Shousong their own, to his girlfriend's manpower man must be selfish, is not married.
money is the best a man can see the essence and feeling things. sisters love is not about money, but if he makes you feel right on the money, made to get to think he is right for you. In love, normal consumption should be, clear to AA meeting began by saying the man is too good at calculating, too afraid of a disadvantage. in the future of marriage, there are many needs where human sacrifice, so that men will be the first run away.
7. hit man can not be, be sure to break up a fight. Fa, and always maintain many candidates can not be a man, one must be found break up. old saying, when to shut the troubled anti.
8. love girls have their own bottom line.
must not love him because to give up their dignity, insult their parents, abandoned their work. good romance, marriage must be a win-win, rather than unilateral sacrifice and fulfill.
9. meet her like a man, must brave chase.
unrequited love is the hardest , and most did not result.
10. have something to say so.
have any idea, say it, do not let men guess, to communicate, your life will be more happy. can not communicate, that your happiness is also there is no guarantee. I think his girlfriend did not mind a man is suppose to music. for this reason, lost a good man, really a pity.
11. Do not start doing virtuous in front of men like.
If he paid for your peace of mind, but not a return, he has suspected of machismo. If you are a long time, and my heart at ease, do no good as before, he would be injured, will think you lied to him or is that you do not love him. better than the beginning, there measured the affection and give him an opportunity to show, let him do something for you. tell the truth, what they pay men more deeply impressed. He has done for you more, pay more, he more you yearn, the less open. Instead, you pay, and he did not feel he was more access. in marriage, often do chores, and often take care of the children of men to give up the possibility of marriage much lower, it is precisely because the home is created by his hard, he could not bear to give up. a lot of efforts to reach the most cruel man has a virtuous, selfless woman devoted their. I finally determined to marry her boyfriend, because he and I said: I worry about you, I always fear you live well, or come across, as long as one does not see you, I am very worried about you. His hard work and my gratitude is two of the best model for interaction.
12. When the break is off.
all make mistakes possible, but if the same mistake again, that is, they have a problem. a lot of sisters because N years and a man who does not treat their own lives together, injured, or his last. One of my friends and I said: the things in this world, not static, it either get better or worse, in short, no change . It directly led me out of the sentence is not a good feeling. because I know that if you want to change that relationship will only get worse, then I will be more hurt by too. My courage is my now life is good most solid foundation.
13. for love and love, not for a beautiful wedding, or a dream luxury and love of life.
are required to pay the price of all happiness, but do not let some consideration ruin your life. young girls easily fooled by vanity, but in a real marriage, that can give you at night kicking off the quilt cover is a man worthy of the man entrusted his life.
14. to love you and cherish the real men are nice.
good men to really good way for you Hello, you not condone, nor bound by love you in your name. Such men rarely, if met, we must cherish. young men will often pure love of his girlfriend the way, he may mature, but his love is true, do not lightly give up. after more life experiences in the community, you will a really valuable to know how.
15. all too late.
There are many good men in this world it is hard to find the other half. Not all men love virgins only, not all men would care about your previous marriage, but not all men care about your age, education. There are many good marriages, men love, is their own stupid woman, naive, and, and a round body, or the mouth of the sinking mole. You suffered the injury, he will double and care, your courage, make him more respect. So, even if injured, but also the same as Kim Sam Soon, brave love, like not been hurt. you only have the first open themselves, the world will let you go.
16. Do not start the pursuit of a man to pay his own heart.
good men and bad men in the pursuit of the beginning you will care about you, then you send your to give you a text message, take care of you when you are sick. not one was nice to you, you will immediately fall into the trap, think about, more to see, make a decision. in general, four months, enough exposure, enough to you know him. online communication is not, and then not too long network of contacts, and real life makes sense. you have to eat with him, go shopping, do something together, to understand him. have you been or happy, you know. In many cases, not a man to deceive us, is our own lying to yourself.
17. If you love him and accept him now, do not expect him to change.
if he could change, of course the best, or to think about, you can not accept it. drawback of every marriage, marriage will be amplified. He smoked, and you love him, just try to accept it, married men to quit smoking too little. The same is true of other shortcomings.
18.30 over the age of men often habits, lifestyle has been fixed for the possibility of a woman completely changed not too large, and he needs you to adapt to him. Instead, the young The men are more willing to change the beloved woman.
this one is entirely my personal feelings may be wrong, please forgive me.
look back, after all I've done wrong, but fortunately my nature is a ; Mang woman , some are corny, I can be true is each of painful lessons, later, I will tell my daughter, the mother of the child as a blessing.