time is really cruel, it can face reminder of our old, also can we become a hot blue chip stocks garbage nobody cares. Safety factor of marriage, society as a whole reduce total let us insecure, to grab something to be afraid of the contrary, the tight grasp the hands of the sand drain faster.
proliferation is a self-salvation, but also a sublimation There are many ways to achieve it:
one, have their own business
the significance of the women cause, not just the resulting sense of accomplishment and self-confidence, the most important economic independence and freedom. The marriage itself is unknown, do not come to the last moment, no one can predict what will happen next. When a woman have the ability to feed themselves when, even future confusing, not knowing her fear. Cause women to have a comfortable with variable capital and power.
Zhang Yue when he said: a woman should have their own careers, if not their cause, at least to have their own thing. If you do not own it, it will do to her husband as her own, then it really matter anymore.
Second, to develop some hobbies
anything we are interested in, we can try. Painting, musical instruments, dance, cooking, photography and more. Low-profile study, and then at the appropriate time to show off, we can achieve blockbuster results. Most likely, it will give us the door to open a business. Even if not a career achievement, at least, our lives have become so vivid and full.
three, with close friends
live behind closed doors, a long time, the home became a siege, himself became a frog. Friends are the mirror of our growth in different areas of friends not only enrich our conversation, but also let our hearts become like to be spring water washed clean and mellow stone. Sad frustrated, the friend is bad mood the trash, loneliness, the friends that we would never betray the shadow, warm us, but also inspired us.
Fourth, the image of their own responsibility
no ugly women, only lazy. My husband does not neglect their children daily necessities reasons, but the marriage does not always bring Huanglian Po. Disgraced in marriage to old, but their choice may be someone to be pitied, but not out for praise. Chill posted a mask, to be a beauty, make them look radiant, refreshed, and elegance of dress, not only the respect of others, and let your gestures to add a bit Mature charm.
five, engage in public welfare activities
pick up the white trash, scrub the street billboards, to maintain traffic safety, to orphanages, homes for the elderly, hospice volunteer, donor-school children in poor areas, and consciously promote water conservation to conserve electricity and so on, pay attention, we around a lot of meaningful public service activity. These activities make our lives more meaningful, let our hearts become tolerant peaceful, and the glory in which motherhood is also fully reflected.
six, leaving room for their own
a dog, you chase the more tight, it run faster. Feelings too, too close will make people want to escape. Once the dependence of a person, when the other person suddenly pulled out, they will lost their sense of loss. Keep a space of their own, learn to face the world alone. Remember: A woman can not enjoy an independent life, marriage equality, and self-appreciation can not understand the true meaning of marriage.
seven, learning the necessary knowledge
the face of hundreds of thousands of children why you speechless? Proficient at financial analysis of the face of her husband, are you confused? We can excuse the busy home, but can not win the worship in the eyes of a child, her husband enjoy the attention. Instead of time on the boring TV on, it is better to spend time reading or watching her husband Jing Xiaxin with some of the financial, current affairs programs, at least in the discussion to not get on without words, people underestimate.
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